Step-by-Step: A 2–5 Minute EFT Round
1) Name & rate
Briefly describe the target (e.g., “this tightness in my chest when I think about ___”) and rate distress 0–10.
2) Setup (Side of Hand) – tap and repeat 3×:
“Even though I feel [emotion/sensation] about [situation], I accept myself and I’m open to feeling safe now.”
3) Tap each point (7–10 taps) with a short “reminder” phrase
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Eyebrow: “this [feeling]”
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Side of Eye: “it’s intense”
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Under Eye: “I feel it in my [body part]”
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Under Nose: “right now”
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Chin (Under Mouth): “and that’s OK”
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Collarbone: “letting my body soften”
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Under Arm: “supporting myself”
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Top of Head: “safer and steadier now”
4) Re-rate & refine
Check 0–10 again. If it dropped, great. If not, narrow the focus (a specific image/moment) and repeat a round.
60-second reset (stealth version): Tap Collarbone → Under Arm → Top of Head while breathing slowly (in 4, out 6). Repeat your setup silently.
Trauma-Sensitive Tips (read this first)
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Titrate: Work the edges of a memory, not the worst part first.
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Resource: Ground (feet on floor), look around and name five neutral objects, lengthen your exhale.
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Stop rule: If dissociation, numbness, or panic ramps up, pause tapping, orient to the present, sip water, and reach out to a professional.
For a quick clinical framing and where EFT fits in a broader plan, see the NICE research recommendation and the VA Whole Health resources. NICEVeterans Affairs
The 9 common tapping points
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Side of Hand (setup): acknowledge and accept what’s present.
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Top of Head: reset/clarity.
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Eyebrow: fear and worry often show up here; invite calm.
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Side of Eye: tension, frustration; soften the edges.
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Under Eye: stress/overwhelm; settle the body.
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Under Nose: shame or guilt; meet with compassion.
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Chin/Under Mouth: sadness or low mood; bring gentleness.
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Collarbone: physical tension/pain; soften and release.
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Under Arm: self-support, confidence; anchor safety.
FAQs
Is EFT safe to do on my own?
Generally yes for everyday stress. For complex PTSD or if you feel unstable, partner with a trauma-informed clinician. Harvard Medical School offers a helpful explainer on tapping’s use for trauma/anxiety. HMS Harvard
How quickly will I feel calmer?
Some people feel a shift in minutes. Clinical studies often use multiple sessions for durable gains, and some report cortisol drops after a single session. Results vary. Lippincott JournalsPubMed
Is EFT a replacement for therapy?
No. It can be a powerful adjunct and self-care tool. For PTSD, guidelines still prioritize trauma-focused CBT and EMDR, with EFT flagged for further research. NICE
Further Reading
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Meta-analysis: Clinical EFT for PTSD (2023), open-access (NIH mirror). PMC
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Methodology context: 2024 commentary on the meta-analysis. PMC
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Cortisol studies: J Nervous & Mental Disease (2012) and 2020 re-examination. Lippincott JournalsPubMed
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Guidelines: NICE NG116 research recommendation on EFT in adult PTSD. NICE
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Clinical programs: VA Whole Health pages referencing EFT/tapping in skills classes and pain resources. Veterans Affairs+1
Final word
EFT tapping is simple, portable, and—according to emerging research—effective for many. Use it to take the edge off in the moment and to build daily resilience. If you’re navigating complex trauma, let tapping support (not replace) a professional, evidence-based care plan.